W. Bradford Wilcox, the author of the widely praised Soft Patriarchs, New Men: How Christianity Shapes Fathers and Husbands, sat down with Kathryn Lopez of NRO to talk fatherhood in America.

Since the publication of Soft Patriarchs, New Men, Wilcox has expanded his research to lower income and more ethnically diverse segments of society. Not surprisingly, his conclusions have been the same. Religion, it turns out, is good not only for producing more marriages, but better marriages too:

What I have found so far is that religious attendance does promote higher rates of marriage among blacks and Latinos. I have also found that religion fosters better relationships among married and unmarried black and Latino couples in America. Most interestingly, men’s attendance is more predictive of marriage and relationship quality than is women’s attendance. So across racial and ethnic lines, religion matters in making men better husbands and fathers.

In order to promote marriage, though, Wilcox contends that the government needs to ease the tax burden on lower-income families (something Ramesh Ponnoru argued as well, though for different reasons).

Policymakers need to do a lot more to make marriage pay in low-income communities. The could start by addressing the marriage penalty facing low-income couples. In most states, low-income couples face a 20-30 percent hit in their real income/benefits if they get married. For instance, most unmarried low-income single mothers lose Medicaid if they marry a man working full-time in a low-wage job. So the government can and should do a lot more to reinforce the economic basis of marriage in low-income communities.

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Matthew Lee Anderson is the Founder and Lead Writer of Mere Orthodoxy. He is the author of Earthen Vessels: Why Our Bodies Matter to our Faith and The End of Our Exploring: A Book about Questioning and the Confidence of Faith. Follow him on Twitter or on Facebook.

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