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A Year of Biblical Womanhood: A(nother) Review

November 30th, 2012 | 10 min read

By Jake Meador

Editor's note:  My friend Jake Meador wrote this right around the same time I wrote my thoughts.  We don't often post multiple entries on books, but Jake's thoughts are worth considering and well stated. --MLA 

biblical womanhoodThere are two common literary tropes Rachel Held Evans is playing with in her latest book A Year of Biblical Womanhood. The more obvious and less fortunate of the two is the satirical reductio ad absurdum. Tired of hearing evangelicals speak about a narrow, moralistic brand of womanhood as “biblical,” Evans decided to show how unhelpful the label is by being completely “biblical” and following every scriptural admonition given to women. She’s wanting to use the complementarians own logic to undermine their unhelpful, confining ideas about gender. Indeed, that’s a large part of why she wrote the book in the first place according to her comments in the book’s introduction.

The trouble with a reductio is that for it to be effective, you need to be describing your opponent’s logic accurately. Otherwise, you’re running to absurd ends with a logic that isn’t valid. Ultimately, all you end up doing is setting fire to a straw man. Unfortunately, this is exactly what Evans did. The complementarian argument is much more complex than mindlessly repeating “1 Timothy 2,” over and over like a horde of young, restless, reformed zombies hungry for egalitarian brains. But you wouldn’t know that if your only exposure to complementarians is Evans’ book. This is unfortunate because the complementarian case is far better than “it’s biblical.”

Having come to complementarianism very reluctantly and over a long period of time, I’ve heard the argument for it given many times and in many different ways. Almost everyone I’ve spoken with mentions the Pauline texts on women, but hardly any one applies them in the flat, simplistic way implied by Evans’ reductio. I know there are people out there who still use the “the Bible says it, I believe it, that settles it” line on these issues, but in my experience they are not nearly as prominent as they once were. More importantly, the major figureheads of the complementarian movement generally avoid this unfortunate and unhelpful line. What’s far more common is to find people trying to honestly wrestle with uncomfortable biblical texts in a way that assumes we are accountable to the text and bound by it as Christians. So we wrestle with issues like creation order and how that informs Paul’s argument for distinct gender-based roles. We also struggle to understand how issues of submission and self-sacrificing authority are central to understanding the Gospel. Most complementarians I know are not complementarian because the position is come by easily. In fact, most of us would say that we’d love to not be complementarian because it’d make our lives considerably easier. But after long, careful study of scripture (ironically, the very sort of study Evans’ endorses so enthusiastically in the book and on her blog), we’ve come to conclusions that can generally be associated with the label “complementarian.” Acting as if our position is adopted out of lazy assumptions and a lack of reflection about the word “biblical” simply isn’t honest.

Another point that is worth raising briefly: It should be a rule in Christian circles that when you argue against a theological view, you need to argue against the most capable, reasoned articulation of that view. If you’re looking to debunk complementarianism, don’t do it by telling us Debi Pearl is an abusive troll - we already knew that. Do it by taking on the careful exegetical arguments made by our most capable thinkers. That will earn a hearing. But misrepresenting our position and acting as if fringe extremists like Debi Pearl represent us is really dishonest and irresponsible. Having said all that, I’m happy to report that the reductio isn’t the sum total of the book. There’s far more going on here than just a poorly-constructed critique of complementarianism. It turns out that when Evans isn’t engaging in a polemic against complementarians, her book is actually quite good.

The second genre in play with the book has not been discussed nearly as much as the first, though I was pleased to see Carissa Smith mention it at Christ and Pop Culture. Evans is also writing what I’m going to call a transformative journal. The idea of a transformative journal is that the author adopts an utterly alien lifestyle for a defined length of time and then writes about the experience. This is an extremely well-established type of literature both in American literature and in Christian circles. In American lit, you can look at Thoreau’s Walden, Dillard’s Pilgrim at Tinker Creek, Tracie McMillan’s Eating in America, or (most obviously) A.J. Jacobs Year of Living Biblically. In Christian circles, you could look at Henri Nouwen’s Genesee Diary or Shane Claiborne’s Irresistible Revolution. This concept is huge in neo-monastic circles as well. Mark Scandrette, founding director of ReIMAGINE in San Francisco and author of Practicing the Way of Jesus, calls these practices “experiments in truth.” At ReIMAGINE, they once did an “experiment” in which members of the community gave away half of everything they owned in the spirit of obeying Christ’s admonition to the rich young ruler to “sell everything you have and come follow me.” They didn’t think that every Christian should sell half of all they own, but they did think that if riches could keep a wealthy young Jew in first century Palestine from the kingdom of God, then surely they could do the same to a 21st century American.

The idea of a transformative journal is that you can understand a person or a belief better if you, as the saying goes, walk a mile in their shoes. And on this count, Evans’ book is a smashing success. Some of her chapter-end reflections on the various virtues or qualities she studied are absolutely fantastic. For example, there’s this excerpt from the end of her chapter on domesticity: “Maybe it was my definition of ‘perfect’ that had changed. Somewhere between the chicken soup and the butter-bleeding pie, I’d made peace with the God of pots and pans--not because God wanted to meet me in the kitchen, but because he wanted to meet me everywhere, in all things, big or small. Knowing that God both inhabits and transcends our daily vocations, no matter how glorious or mundane, should be enough to unite all women of faith and end that nasty cycle of judgment we get caught in these days.” That message is absolutely excellent and, I dare say, is a message that millions of women (and men, for that matter) desperately need to hear. Her reflections on purity, modesty, and Proverbs 31 are also very good and helpful.

The Proverbs 31 chapter deserves special mention. Evans comes to Proverbs 31 as many evangelical women do: They see it as the biblical equivalent to the cover girl on Cosmo. It represents the totally unrealistic, unobtainable standard that is, nevertheless, the standard by which they are judged. Evans turns that reading on its head, encouraging readers to see Proverbs 31 as less of a church lady-style browbeating and more as an affirmation of women pursuing the hard work of pursuing their vocations in ways that honor God and promote his work in the world. The Hebrew phrase eschet chayil, roughly translated as “woman of valor,” becomes a recurrent theme in the book and has also become a regular feature of her blog, where Evans and her readers tell the story of the many women of valor they have known. The affirmation in a phrase like eschet chayil is something that everyone needs to hear, but I think it probably has a special weight with evangelical women who often are made to carry two very heavy burdens: the expectations of American popular culture and of evangelical Christianity. For the woman trying to raise children, support and love her husband, do good work in whatever field she pursues, maintain a certain level of physical appearance (lest she be accused by certain pastors of “letting herself go”), and be sufficiently involved in her local community, I imagine eschet chayil! is an incredibly encouraging and much-needed declaration.

One of the big questions with transformative journals is “so what did your experience teach you?” Evans has a good answer for that question, offered in the form of several resolutions she shares at the end of the book. Here again her conclusions are very sound and helpful. They include the following: Eat more ethically, identify and praise women of valor, embrace the prospect of motherhood, nurture the contemplative impulse, make room for ritual remembrance, champion women leaders in the church, honor Dan (her husband), and keep loving, studying, and struggling with the Bible. Any evangelical Christian should be able to affirm that list and support and encourage Evans in her attempts to honor it. I’d be remiss if I didn’t add a personal note here, which is that one of the women Evans has personally helped is my fellow Lincoln-based writer, Michelle Derusha. Michelle has, in turn, been a great help to me with my questions about the writing life. So I am a direct beneficiary of Evans’ project.

My reason for writing about the two genres that define the book is relatively simple: This is a good book with some significant flaws. And it’s a book that needs a wide reading in evangelical circles. Hermeneutical missteps aside (though they are significant), Evans’ book is offering evangelicals a way of speaking about gender and sexuality that clearly resonates with many people. And this is an area where we can stand to learn a good deal about such issues. We live in a nation where hardcore pornography is a $2 billion a year business, where young women are crushed under unobtainable body image standards set by women who don’t even exist. Additionally, hook-up culture is a fact of life in much of the nation, a fact that I can’t help think is connected to another fact of life: the ubiquity of rape. According to many groups, one in four American women will have survived rape or attempted rape by the time they graduate college (or reach an equivalent age). There’s another disturbing statistic I came across several years ago that said roughly 40 percent of women in the Greek system will survive rape or attempted rape during their collegiate careers. In short, as a nation we are experiencing a crisis of sexual ethics.

To a sex addled nation like the United States, a Christian understanding of sexuality and gender should be received as a beacon of hope, wholeness, and joy. But often it isn’t seen that way. Say what you will about the accuracy of Barna’s statistics (I tend to think of Barna as the of evangelicalism, but that’s me), I think most of us have anecdotal experience of hearing someone speak very critically of Christian sexual ethics. For whatever reason, the larger culture isn’t buying what we’re selling. And while I think we’d err to follow every step of Evans’ approach (I’m still a complementarian, remember), I do think her emphasis on mutuality between men and women and her desire to see and praise women of valor are two very healthy developments that evangelicals would do well to adopt en masse. For these reasons, I want to see her book receive a broad reading from American evangelicals, even if her reductio critique of complementarianism fails badly. This book’s strengths offer us the sort of concepts that should be rallying points for complementarians and egalitarians alike as we seek to articulate a robust understanding of sex and gender that reflects the wholeness and joy of the Christian Gospel.

Jake Meador

Jake Meador is the editor-in-chief of Mere Orthodoxy. He is a 2010 graduate of the University of Nebraska-Lincoln where he studied English and History. He lives in Lincoln, NE with his wife Joie, their daughter Davy Joy, and sons Wendell, Austin, and Ambrose. Jake's writing has appeared in The Atlantic, Commonweal, Christianity Today, Fare Forward, the University Bookman, Books & Culture, First Things, National Review, Front Porch Republic, and The Run of Play and he has written or contributed to several books, including "In Search of the Common Good," "What Are Christians For?" (both with InterVarsity Press), "A Protestant Christendom?" (with Davenant Press), and "Telling the Stories Right" (with the Front Porch Republic Press).